The true story….
Aaah…The concept of the perfect man..or the perfect version of a story or just perfection!! Unfortunately, the men in our life at this point, and girls are free to disagree here, fail to understand the most mundane of concepts. There is no perfect man hence nothing known as the hunt for one. And no one that I know of or am remotely related to is looking to find anyone who fits the bill of ‘the man’ in her life. Any episode that mite, again mite seem like a quest for someone is in fact only a ploy to satisfy and temporarily quench a parents thirst to meet their childs’ future partner. And there is no perfect version of a story…only the version you want to believe. Ultimately, someone mite come and scream the truth in your face but you will still believe only what your brain wants you to believe, no matter how off-mark it is…Doodh ka doodh aur paani ka paani to hoga…. But everyone has their own version of doodh and paani…No one believes in the standardized version… And as a couple of us like a little extra salt in their food, all of us like to add the little extra salt in stories floating around…
So, when someone says ‘I told a guy who asked for my number to back-off’ and you hear, ‘she was interested in him and wont tell us’… u’re now probably missing words when people say them, the way some people miss them when they talk.. AAH and the pain!! the ouch feeling you feel, when you think your roommates think you’re making up stories and hiding your true feelings… Also, the hilarity of the situation, when they think you might actually be interested in a random person from a random place whom you have never met is beyond description. Even if it is what countless Indian girls since time immemorial may have been doing. I’m still laughin in my head just thinking about it! To me, a tad frank and independent person and a lot more than that according to a few people, I would run a mile from this process, cause I believe in ruining my own life and not letting anyone else do it.
But the fact is, any of these situations, as annoying at times as they may seem have a valuable contribution in my life and in the life of people who contribute to this page. Entertainment! And one more topic to write about…:D That is it! Beyond that, it is what i call..Boohaaaki!
And to answer the serious questions of how girls find the perfect man….they dont….They find a man and to them he is perfect…And yes, no one here is talking of molding him to our ways..Accepting a person’s imperfections is what makes it perfect…And that perfection is most times, seen just by them and missed by most…. But who cares as long as we have our definition of perfection… Each Bella does find her Edward, though he may be Jacob to the world!
Making a man more perfect than he is , is impossible…aur raha ladkiyo ka sawaal to they have this mental deficiency due to which it becomes increasingly difficult for them to understand or gauge perfectness..and so they end up seeing everything else as imperfect..However the truth as known to every being on earth is that we always make women look better just so that their ego doesn’t get hurt