A mix of primaries
The very reason this blog came into existence is because apart from dinner table debates, we needed a place to constructively and calmly put forward our wide spread opinions on everything under the sun… And wide spread they are…cause we are a bunch of people who differ in every aspect you can think of..Boys, girls, old, not-so-old, engineers, scientists, north-south… And most debates are heated too..cause unfortunately/fortunately each one of us is as strong headed as the next and always ‘assumes’ his/her point is the one that makes absolute sense… now most times, this is actually exciting..Keeps us alive and keeps life enjoyable…as long as v know that at d end of d day, v are sharing these views with people v share lives with.. d opinions tht differ r opinions of people v come home to everyday… ppl v actually look fwd to meet…
I’m still suffering from d aftermath of d debate/discussion/argument tht I was at the crux of last nite… What started as a friendly debate on an existing blog entry turned into a discussion I was dreading and had tried my best to keep away from, for a long time..Precisely because d other person primarily involved in this discussion was d last person I wanted to have an argument with…d last person I wud want to defy… Also, because a debate between two ppl who have equally bad tempers is never pretty… But this discussion also involved all d other members of d ‘club’.. Some who though interested in knowing d story behind it all, kept running to d bedroom intermittently..Even tho at times it was to keep a runnin commentary on this blog…lol! And for the first time with respect to d topic in discussion, much to our pleasure, Baba Bhya Swamy gave his vishesh tippanis no matter from which side of the debate..
Strong views, right or wrong, understood or not, are always going to remain… the only thing I stick by in d entire thing is my conviction…N I urge everyone.. n ppl kno whn I refer to thm here…To stick by wht u believe in…n who u believe in…n I believe in this bunch of ppl rite here… to kno thy will always ‘stand-by’ me…tht v will always stand by each other…n once again..not to take dis in d literal sense of d word… difference in views, difference is support, difference in actions..will exist….shud exist…. But wht exists beyond all this is d fact tht v will always remain one family..one blog…. Each is a primary here, but v complement each other… in a way tht is shown to me each passing day…
In a place where relationships have been broken, friendships have been ruined; love and faith have been reciprocated with mistrust and hate, it still warms my heart to know tht each day I drive home to a bunch of ppl who are above and beyond this… who will tell u: dude, u screwed up… but will never wash u off the palette…
too much, love the “wash the pallete ending”